If a man said something similar about women, they’d get called out on it.
Women tell men that the changes that they are making are for their benefit and will make them a better person to everyone they encounter. Men, single or not, should not put up with this and should be upfront that they will not put up with this or where they will draw a line of compromise.
Men have tried their best to be friendly, nice, and sociable and yet women still act those ways by following the bandwagon fallacy that all men are animals who are not worth their time.
Single men are giving up on women because they are sick of being thought of as animals.
Men are only the same in that they share xx chromosomes; beyond that men have range of different interests, goals, and views on life. If they are not able to make women happy or if women are unhappy for some reason, men receive the blame even if they try to help.
Most men don’t have the emotional dynamism that women want men to have that they think will make them be happy in a relationship.