Our patented Guided Communication process was designed by our Ph D psychologists, and is our recommended form of communication.A slow, controlled way of getting to know someone, it starts by exchanging 5 multiple choice questions from a list of 57.They allow some creativity to be humorous, or can simply be a way to say where you are and what you’re doing.Two Communications Sent So you’ve completed your profile, and posted 3 (or more) great photos.However, I think we’d all be fooling ourselves if we said looks weren’t important.Posting a photo has been shown to get you 9 times more communication; no one wants to communicate with an empty box!We strongly recommend sending some form of communication to at least 2 of your matches on your FIRST DAY. We know many of you prefer to let the man make the first move.But keep in mind this is a new and different environment where it’s perfectly acceptable for the woman to make the first move, and you wouldn’t want to let your ideal match get away because you refused to communicate first. We have three different types of communication, so you can experiment and find the one you are most comfortable with.
Try to answer these questions as if you were on a date, and your potential match was right across the table. Too often we see one word answers to these questions; would YOU respond back to a profile like that?
These questions can help get some of the big stuff out of the way that you may not be comfortable asking on a first date, like, “When in a relationship, are you a jealous person?
” or “Do you enjoy debating the issues of the day with your partner?
You’ve taken the first step, spent an hour answering questions about yourself, and purchased a subscription. Because e Harmony is a relationship site, we are set up a bit differently from other dating sites. Five In My Own Words Questions You’ll start receiving your first matches within minutes of completing the Relationship Questionnaire, and they’ll be receiving your profile at the same time.
Even people who are experienced with online dating may not know where to start. It’s important that you have a way of standing out from the crowd.