Inspiration, intuition, and imagination gripped me long before I could find my feet.
I walk the life path of 7, so I am irreversibly bound to the realm of mysticism, spiritualism, and esotericism.
They fear that dating a soul mate may completely invalidate the divinity, or authenticity of their twin flame union, or exile any possibility of a reunion, this is all untrue.
Sometimes, for whatever reason, through the years, it strikes you that your twin flames journey is separate from yours, and you must accept this, and grow within your circumstances, releasing your desire to control.
Love, is my speciality, and has governed my existence.Not only does ophiuchus represent healing, but also the crevices of the dark shadows that we must crawl through to find our path to healing, in other words, the shamanic process of death, and re-birth, which has pretty much been the summation of my existence thus far.Long gone are my days of depression, I have re-claimed my divinity, and I desire nothing more than to help you to also claim yours. Part of the many trials that I have endured upon this empathic journey, are that of heart break, and abandonment consciousness.With the twin flame Union, even during separation, the ‘runner’ twin will send feelings of love, and comfort, that will be felt energetically, even if misunderstood.Though, that being said, it is true that this Union can often ‘mimic’ these sorts of unhealthy attachments. All of the twins, (including myself), that I have come across experiencing this journey have been in unspeakable agony, waiting, longing, and yearning for their twin.Some even wait years, losing the ‘best’ years of their lives to the emotional torment of missing their twin, whilst their twin continues to live a life seemingly unphased. Otherwise, they are certainly not, ‘meant’ to be together.Conaequently, the life of the stayer twin become nothing but a series of emotional pits, anxiety, and Non-fulfilment. Every time that you obsess over your twin posing with a new man/woman on social media, or about the important date that they did not contact you on, you are slowly opening up the childhood wound that breathes, ‘you are not enough’. Take a look at the example of a fully activated and self actualised stayer twin, who completes all the necessary self work, is fully on the road to recovery, takes charge of their destiny, and then the, ‘matrix’ twin, who is still stuck in ego consciousness, who refuses to choose the light, or continues to harm themselves, and others with low vibrational, or abusive behaviour.Now this article is not in Anyway anti twin flames, and dating a soul mate also has its pros for those twins who are destined to re-unite, they may provide valuable lessons to learn about love, and about yourself, whilst your twin is not present to allow, and to help you to work through those issues. If a soul mate relationship is successful for a twin flame, their high vibrations will elevate for both, and their partner to heights most profound, though they will be eternally connected to their twin.Let’s just say many soul mate relationships upon the journey are mini role plays of bigger issues that you actually had to work out with your twin, for your growth. They may experience a relationship of the highest bliss, and love, all because of the element of twin flame vibrations that are brought by the one twin.So many have put their entire lives on hold, and frozen their self worth, awaiting it’s ressurection by their twin. Not only because the twin flame Union is designed to break these co-dependent patterns, but also because then, you are not learning unconditional love.You are still searching for conditions, because granted, if you do not get a desirable response, (or any response for that matter), from your twin, you are sent into a spiralling rail of gloom, doom, depression, and self loathing. For the longest time it seems, that the theory of twin flames has been that we are not meant for anybody else. Sure, according to the grand design the twin flame Union is our ultimate resonance, and our souls highest purpose, but this is only IF both twins clear themselves of the egos way of thinking, feeling, and living.