Dating as a polyamorous woman brings with it a lifetime's worth of misconceptions and jealousies.Add a few extra layers of fat to that experience, and things can get depressing real fast.Transit -- from buses and taxis all the way to airplanes -- can lead to downright hostile environments.I'm not likely to fit on most of the rides at the amusement park and the thought of eating a meal sitting in a rickety plastic chair puts me on high alert.If there's an attraction between us, you'll know it, and whatever desires that sparks, let's talk about them.
Dudes tend to assume that I haven't dated a lot in my life -- or the opposite, that I'm always up for casual sex because I'm desperate for attention.Girls like a guy who has got presence and men love a cuddly lass.Whoever you are, whatever you're weight, if you're considered fat, lazy or overweight (even better if it's all three of these things!), Ezra Miller’s fatty-loving smartass teen enlists the help of the supersized food-porn star next door (Carrie Baker Reynolds) to win over a chubby classmate. “I need it to be known that I like a big girl,” the announced to a barful of baseball douchebags. Big girls need love too, baby.” Asking them out works too! Johnny Sack on The Sopranos One of only two Tony Soprano’s goons to stay faithful to his oft-mocked, rotund wife, Ginny (Denise Borino, who sadly died of cancer last October), Sack refers to her as “Rubenesque” at one point, insists she doesn’t have to hide her secret candy-snacking from him, and even offers to kill Ralphie (who wouldn’t? “Jack Sprat could eat no fat/His wife could eat no lean,” but the platter definitely wasn’t the only thing the quintessential opposites-attract couple licked clean. Also the archetypal “closet” Fat Admirer: Slick player in a high-profile power position with an equally powerful, and lithe wife for a beard; bangs his orally-animated chubby secretary on the downlow.“In fact, a large, zaftig, voluptuous, full-figured, big-boned, massive-assive honey, that is what gets me going. As a non-single, fat, polyamorous woman, I can't tell you how often I've been questioned about my confidence, self-worth, who I am, and why I'm into what I'm into.If literally the only reason you are interested in me is because I'm fat, you might want to take a step back and get to know a bit about me first. When you tell me I'm not, what you are really saying is that despite my body size, I'm not all those horrible things you tend to associate with fatness.Sure, maybe he’s just a swell guy who loves his wife of 10 years.But something at home‘s inspiring her to keep wearing all those bikinis on the beach.Dan Weiss is the author of the blog Ask a Guy Who Likes Fat Chicks and he’s profiled in this week’s feature, “Guys Who Like Fat Chicks.” He put together a list of ten males who appreciate larger ladies in Western mass culture because, frankly, there aren’t all that many.Fat Admirers do exist, and you may have even actually heard of us. Pierce Brosnan James Bond himself remains happily married to television personality Keely Shaye Smith, who these days sports more than your average Hollywood belly.